Monday, May 3, 2010

Life. Love. Learning.

Even after all this time, I'm STILL learning more and more. It's just so crazy to me how you can think you know someone, like REALLY know them and then come to find out................you don't. It hurts. It makes you question EVERYTHING they ever said to you.

I'm a strong woman who works hard and I know what I want out of life. I think some guys are intimidated by that, especially if they don't know what they want or where they're going. I think some guys like that "damsel in distress" factor...the girls with "baggage" who need to be taken care of. It makes the guy feel needed and secure that she won't leave him...because she "needs" him. Whereas, if you have a STRONG woman who is secure in yourself and know what you want out of life...if scares some men. They are intimidated by that. Am I supposed to apologize for being that strong woman? - NO! Someday I will find a MAN who knows what he wants and where he is going!

I would like him to posses these qualities:

+ smart/intelligent
+ attractive
+ has goals & a plan of how to achieve them
+ loyal
+ funny/witty
+ is READY TO BE IN A RELATIONSHIP!!!!
- won't turn their back on you when the going gets tough
- won't embarrass you in front of his friends for a good laugh
- won't CHEAT on you

More than anything...I want unconditional love.



Love&BeLoved.

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